When I say "woman" or "man" I am making generalizations. There are exceptions to every rule and I have seen plenty on both sides.
There is a growing schism between male and female voters in the United States. Roughly 1 in 3 women identify as conservative/republican. That means that 2 out of 3 do not.
Why don't women support conservatives? Certainly the abortion issue is part of it, but women leaned left long before abortion became an issue. There is a deeper cause that compels women to vote left which even effects many women on the right as well.
Our forefathers did a lot of work to create a system of government that would create the greatest society ever made. Allowing women to vote has eroded the protections that were meant in the Bill of Rights and is leading to the destruction of our country through unsustainable socialist programs.
The reason is that both evolutionary biology and society have ingrained in women a set of characteristics and values that are against capitalism and equality. Paradoxically, men living in a free and democratic society should have never allowed women to vote.
In the early part of the 20th century the nation as a whole was more conservative and women often voted the same way men did for a long time. Unfortunately the men that passed the 19th amendment believed in souls and they did not understand the biological instincts that drive women when they gave them the right to vote.
Most women are ruled by emotions and are therefore very poor at strategic planning. What is good one day is bad the next, what is true on Monday may be false on Thursday. Someone who was a friend on Wednesday might be a mortal enemy on Saturday. That is why they should not be allowed to determine long term policies.
In military terms women are programmed biologically for tactics, not strategy. They are best at dealing with local, immediate issues. Men are better at strategic thinking because they had to be. Men had to figure out strategies to take down big game, raise crops, shepherd livestock and figure out how to keep their offspring alive. These all required forward thinking so men got better at it.
The beauty of the relationship between the sexes was in its simplicity. For men to be able to formulate long term strategies and implement them they needed to be free of immediate and local concerns. Women's biology forced them to be concerned with immediate and local concerns as they had to raise the offspring so in the same way men came to excel at strategy women became excellent at tactics.
Unfortunately one of the main tactics women use is lying and manipulating. Again biology dictated that they couldn't just take whatever they wanted from someone physically so they had to try to get what they wanted through indirect means. Sadly those indirect means often include things like lying, gossip and sexual exploitation.
Unfortunately for modern women they have never evolved past the tactical stage in their thought processes. This leads them to do things that are necessary or desired right now with little to no thought about the strategic consequences.
The modern woman is not committed to anything but herself, and since the way she feels about herself changes from day to day, sometimes moment to moment, it makes it impossible to form long lasting relationships with them.
There are many single women out there asking "where are all the good men?" The answer is, "avoiding you."
Modern women are responsible for the current problem with men. Once they got reliable birth control they decided that it was time to go out and express themselves sexually. They enjoyed it and they pushed the "fun time" into their 30's.
Women told men, "I don't need a man." What they really meant was, "I want to do whatever I want without consequences." Men said, "you can do what you want but there will be consequences." Men have faced the consequences of their actions on a daily basis since they first emerged and they knew it was impossible to act without consequence.
Modern women only think about marriage when they can find an older man with the finances to take care of them and men know their "loyalty" runs out when the money runs out or when the next guy can provide more or when they just decide that all they really liked about him was his money and they can take half of that and leave.
Society has made it very easy for women to take care of their immediate and local needs so many of them never bother to develop long term strategies, and even fewer follow through on them. Eventually they get to a point where they realize that the "fun time" is running out and they need to plan for the future. Most of them can't simply because they have never had to. So they get desperate to find someone who can provide a secure future.
On the other hand, the guys that women rejected when they were 18, 21 and 25 learned to live without women. Necessity dictated that they learn to cook and clean and the only thing they really need from a woman is the one thing they will never get; loyalty.
Ladies, you brought this on yourselves and you are the only ones that can fix it and you have to do it as a group. In order to do this you need to get a reality check.
Reality check #1: Just because a guy wants to bed you doesn't mean he thinks you are anything but a piece of meat. Just because thousands of men make passes at you doesn't mean you have any extraordinary value. Men know they are going to get rejected a lot so they make offers on a mass scale hoping to find one partner. You getting lots of interest isn't all about you, it is about the way women have treated men.
Reality check #2: If you want a man that wants more than a sex partner you have to be more than a sex partner. Ladies, there are around 4 billion other females on the planet, almost all of whom can have intercourse. Unless you have something to offer besides sex you have nothing to offer.
When I see women that spend hours on their appearance and who get botox and butt implants it tells me they have nothing else to offer besides an image. Fake butts are gross and botox lips don't look any better than Mick Jagger's real ones. Tattoos and piercings scream, "pay attention to me." People can say they get them because they like to look at them on their own bodies, but this is equally narcissistic as you must be standing around looking at yourself in the mirror a lot for this to make sense.
If you bothered to ask them I bet most men would tell you that they prefer a more natural look than the tattoos, piercings, botox and butt implants, but what do I know, I'm just a man.
Why would a man want to invest his future in someone who is narcissistic, shallow and uninteresting?
Reality Check #3) Learn to talk about something besides yourself. Women are generally boring because they think the whole world revolves around their immediate needs and that is the only thing that truly interests them. Women know little about current events, history, politics, philosophy, music, sports, or anything else that interests men and their stories about themselves get old, stale and predictable.
Sports viewership demonstrates the difference between men and women in a very simple way. When a lot of women watch sports they watch because they think the guys are hot or because they are with a guy who is watching them. Women do not care about sports because they aren't strategic thinkers.
Men love them because they are. Men can talk for hours about the intricacies of the 3-4 defense, no huddle offenses, infielder shifts and the pros and cons of man coverage vs zone coverage in basketball. We can tell you how to neutralize one strategy with another. We can tell you why they tried to do something and how we could have done it better (we think). It is what separates sport from other kinds of entertainment.
Similarly we can converse on a wide range of topics in much the same fashion. Virtually all the traits considered masculine require motivation and planning and that is what men focus on. When we aren't doing that we want to escape from doing that. So men play video games, watch sports and seek companionship.
Women that haven't actually worked outside the home don't realize just how much a man that is working outside the home has to anticipate and account for on a daily basis. Men have bosses to report to, quotas to meet, coworkers to coordinate with and jobs that are often dirty and thankless.
When a man has a thankless job the only reward he sees is being able to provide for himself and his family. When he has neither a rewarding career nor a family to come home to the only thing he has is self gratification in its many forms. Thus the alcoholism, depression and other illnesses men suffer.
Men have started to redefine what makes them successful in recent years so there are more and more men who no longer define themselves by having a family and they concentrate on improving themselves.
Meanwhile aging women continue to operate in tactical mode, doing little to improve the situation, just sliding from one convenient situation to the next until they run out of convenient partners and convenient employers. Then they have to face the reality that all men grow up with: no one else is going to take care of you.
Reality Check #4) Make yourself valuable in ways that don't revolve around your immediate needs and you will have a better chance of keeping a man if he is willing to defy the odds and take a chance on you.
Since women tend to focus on the immediate and local and men are trying to figure out what will happen tomorrow, next year or twenty years from now their base interests are different.
This is another sphere where men and women have problems communicating. Men don't want to have to deal with yesterday or the minute details of today. It isn't interesting except in the event of natural disasters, wars, or something else equally catastrophic.
It doesn't mean men don't appreciate the things women do to make it easier for them to look at the big picture. They do. Having a loyal companion that he can count on makes things so much easier for a man trying to plan a future for his family. Having a partner that understands and respects this and plays the supporting role by dealing with today's issues is invaluable to a man as it allows him to do what he does best, look forward.
Men, this doesn't give you an excuse to neglect your part of the day-to-day if your woman is also working for a living.
When your partner's loyalty is in question it makes the future difficult to plan for. Both sexes know this.
Men are empowered by women and vice versa. Our making may or may not have been intentional, but biology has made us so our futures are best when we work together.
The role for men has never changed. Men have always been expected to have a plan for the future and they need to be good at tactics to be able to form long term strategies.
As mankind advanced so did the strategies that were needed to navigate the world. Mass production, international logistics and international political and business concerns, including full scale wars, required even greater and greater planning. Men were up to the task. Men got better and better at long term thinking as humans lived longer, but the needs of women never changed. Their concerns were immediate and local and continued to be until the 20th century.
Things changed in the 20th century. Single women are discovering this all over the western world as they try to juggle careers and personal lives, dealing with day to day emergencies and trying to plan for the future all at once. It is a daunting task for anyone.
The biological reason why woman are naturally socialist is simple. They are the weaker sex and always have been. Their continued existence always relied on a man. At birth, early woman required a man to protect the household.
The only thing weaker than a pregnant woman is a young child. The female required the protection of the male to survive pregnancy and for her child to survive to maturity. Sabre toothed tigers roamed the earth until about 10,000 years ago. A pregnant woman was easy prey for any large hungry predator, of which there were many until men tamed the world.
This also explains women's biological programming to continually seek out males that can provide and protect better. Their progeny is more likely to survive the more powerful the father is. It is a fact that existed among all species long before human language began.
Just as in nature, the strongest humans passed on their genes until society changed the natural order. It enabled the survival of the human race until the 20th century.
Unfortunately primitive biology and later societal changes have turned most women into thoughtless socialists. As women were allowed to vote they passed more and more laws that unfairly rewarded women.
Over 39% of today's modern American women spend at least the first 22 years of their life living on someone else's dime. Unfortunately, given the current economic situation, as well as government incentives to women, there are probably very many living on someone else's dime long after that age as well. They think living on someone else's dime is the natural order of the world.
If they don't enter the workforce then they find men to impregnate them so they can continue to live on someone else's dime. Welfare, WIC, and the divorce courts enable many women to continue living on someone else's dime for most of their lives. They believe they are entitled to live on someone else's dime.
The women who are least likely to be socialists are women who grew up in rural areas and worked on a farm or those who worked in mom and pop stores because they had to earn their way. They work the moment they are old enough to participate in helping the family survive and are less entitled than city girls.
Until more recent times the fact that men were naturally more "conservative" was also driven biologically. A fact of life for men until recently was: they either work or starve. There were no other options. This was the cold hard reality for men since the dawn of mankind. Men who fail to take care of themselves are called "losers," while women who fail to take care of themselves are called "victims."
No one supports men except themselves and the lucky few who have women that actually recognize and appreciate them.
The support men receive from other men typically amounts to, "try harder." In most cases that is exactly the correct response. Most men know their future depends solely upon themselves. It is a fact of life that men grow up with. Men know they aren't going to find a rich woman to take care of them and society has largely turned it's back on men because humans recognize that men are both mentally and physically tougher than women.
It is too late to take away women's right to vote, but if Americans want to prevent this country from sinking into socialism we need to force women to play by the same rules that men are forced to play by. Men need to realize that the only way that they can get women to stop voting socialist is to make them live alone and single for the rest of their lives. When they get to go through the struggles men have to endure without living on someone else's dime they will be a lot more concerned about keeping their own dime and they will stop voting for socialist policies.
Men, if you decide to ignore this advice and get married anyway I have seven words for you, "prenuptial agreements," "DNA tests," "trust funds" and "vasectomy." Have child support and custody procedures agreed to before you make a commitment. You have very little to gain from marriage and everything to lose. Commitment can exist without marriage and marriage can exist without commitment, don't confuse the two and don't pick the one that could leave you in sorrow.